Moving on is not an easy task for anyone, especially if you are deeply in love with your partner. The pain of a heartbreak is absolutely insufferable. When things come to an end, it is a difficult period for both men as well as for women. However, it has been observed that very often women move on with their lives, marry someone new, or find a new partner way faster than their ex, meanwhile men dwell within the memories of their former partner for years.
So what all factors contribute in their moving on process and why men don’t know about them ?
Here are 4 reasons why women move on faster than men.
1. Plenty of Support
Now this is a well known fact, although many women will not agree with this, but the fact of the matter is that women have way too much support than men. Men usually have to deal with the sufferings of a breakup all by themselves. Though exceptions will always be there, however, it is rare to see someone come forward to a broken up guy and try to cheer him up for his loss. But, women have their girl friends and their guy friends who will always be there for them.
The reason for such predicament is because of the fact that our society is somewhat inclined towards helping women live a healthy life (which is completely fine), while men are considered to be strong and passionate, and resultantly not much attention is given to their well being.
We live in an unbiased society, yet somehow there is something very biased that exists in it. These things are usually unspoken because a large number of people are in support of women empowerment and feminism, which isn’t inappropriate. It is truly needed in some parts of our planet. However, the well being of men is equally important and shouldn’t be ignored on account of some preconceived notions. Everyone needs help and support and the service to mankind is what make us a true human being !
Service to mankind is service to God!
2. Easy to find a new partner
With this point, I don’t intend to demotivate any person reading this article, but the reality is that, after a breakup, women will have a great deal of potential suitors to pursue as compared to men. The reasons might be demographic, given the fact that in most places like office, college, or any other venue, the number of men is usually more than that of women, and moreover in the 21st century, for men having a woman by your side is more of a pride symbol instead of a love symbol. Additionally, the ratio of men : women in most workplaces is usually 3:1. Which means that for every 1 woman, there are 3 potential suitors. This clearly means that woman have way more choices than men and the sooner you accept that fact, the better it is. Moreover, single men try to hit on a woman, almost everywhere, and that is the reason why it is highly probable that she will find a new guy in just a few days, who will help them to forget their past life and live a new one like a queen.
A person usually doesn’t care about the emotions of their former partner once they have detached their feelings, and that is the harsh reality of life. Besides, women are way more adamant in their life decisions than men. They don’t easily deviate from their discretion. The only thing that could deviate their decision is their love and feelings for their partner. However, if they have somehow managed to disconnect themselves from those emotions as well, there is a high chance that she won’t give in, even if you plead a thousand times. And that’s just how they are !
3. Experience
So, technically the reality is that, women are much more mature than men when it comes to relationship and other relevant stuff. They are basically light-years ahead of us. They have a better experience, better understanding, and a far more better ability to deal with post Breakup traumas (in most cases, exceptions always exist). This might be because of the fact that, they have spent a substancial amount of time in their lives talking about love, feelings, intimacy, etc with their girl friends. On the other hand when men meet their “dudes” or “bros”, they usually end up talking about video games and “hot chicks”. Though, this may not be the case with everyone, however, it is true for most of us.
The other girls share their experiences, their stories, their journeys with each other, which unconsciously trains women to face these mishappenings, if it ever happens to them, in the future. Meanwhile, guys have no idea what to do after a breakup. They end up getting frustrated and become absolutely miserable to tolerate.
Men usually learn when they do the mistakes themselves, because no one ever, consciously or unconsciously, trains us for such things in life.
4. Opening up
Sharing our sorrows, talking about the problems, and spilling out our true self, can be really therapeutic after a breakup. It has been observed that, talking resolves almost 50 percent of the problems related to our mental health. Furthermore, talking and sharing make us more likeable and acceptable in the society.
But the problem with most men is that they usually do not let things out of themselves. Men are usually quite reserved about their feeling and do not easily express them on a public platform. They won’t open up even with their best friends, family, or a close relative. This makes situation even worse for them, considering the fact that they are already depressed and frustrated.
On the other hand, women are much better in expressing themselves and their emotions. They would even cry out, which even though may look a bit weird, but is actually really helpful in moving past our sorrows. Furthermore, they are much more resilient than men. So, it is not an inappropriate thing to say that women can very easily and effectively deal with the pain of breakup.
Harsh Words 